Last night, I talked on the phone with a dog behaviorist specializing in dog aggression for about an hour and a half. I described to her each of my dogs’ disposition, the living arrangement that had worked for more than 3 years until Georgia’s elbow dysplasia diagnosis, the change in living arrangement, and the behavior changes leading up to the fight between Brooklyn and Brandy and Brandy’s attack on Georgia. I found her to be very nice and personable.
The flood gate on my tear ducts opened when she asked “Who’s your favorite?” because I thought she was asking this question to see who I’d end up choosing to give up in case keeping all four of them is not doable. Oh no, I don’t have a favorite. I once tried to pick my favorite – I tried to reason if I had to choose just one in an emergency, who would I choose? I don’t know. I have no idea. They are my kids. How can you choose?
My goal now is to have a functional 2-way separation just as before, whichever combination that might be. Right now I’m doing 3-way without Foster. When he comes back after Georgia’s stitches come out, my plan is to pair him up with Georgia so that I don’t need to do 4-way separation. For me to be able to successfully accomplish this, I want her professional advice, and hopefully, she and I can figure out how to achieve 2-way separation again.
I would have to figure out a way to pay her fee first because she cannot take credit card. Wish me luck.


I have faith that you will find a way to make this work for you Yoonie. You have tried everything and I agre, real kids and furkids – there is no distinction, we love them all.
Good luck with the kiddos.
I know it will all work out on all levels, Yoonie. I think you are an awesome mom!! I am sending you hugs, and thoughts, and prayers – love you, my friend.
I hope everything works out for you guys.
I’m with Miss Attitude…who doesn’t take credit cards these days? :-&
Good luck Yoon!
Good Luck with this, Yoonie
Good luck!
I hope it works out. I know the behaviorist we took Benny to was a lifesaver.